Oh, stop it, you.Almost complete with my Aranea cosplay that I’m doing for Anime Mid-Atlantic! Super excited for this! Just need to get my base wig, color my horns, superglue the Scorpio sign onto my belt, and fix the hem of the dress to look more raggedy and dead.
Also, the glasses. Those are important!Ahh, brb. Screaming.
and im this girl’s meenah for ama
just sayin;D
Almost complete with my Aranea cosplay that I’m doing for Anime Mid-Atlantic! Super excited for this! Just need to get my base wig, color my horns, superglue the Scorpio sign onto my belt, and fix the hem of the dress to look more raggedy and dead.
Also, the glasses. Those are important!
Ahh, brb. Screaming.
LDR Survey
About You
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What is your name?
Harlie
How old are you?
16
Where do you live?
Newport News, Virginia
What do you look like?
I round about 5’3” tall, with slight curve to my frame. I’m not overweight or underweight; I’m balanced. I have shaggy, brunette hair that reaches the nape of my neck and I have darker blue eyes. I have a fair complexion with baby cheeks.
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About Them
You have a significant other, right?
Yes. uwu
What’s their name?
Liam
How old are they?
16
Where do they live?
He wouldn’t want me saying, England.
What do they look like?
His hair fluxtuates between light and darker colors, with brilliant, brown eyes, a charming smile, a balanced frame, paler skin, and a stubble to die for. Oh, and his eyebrows! uwu
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About The Relationship
Since you’re taking this, it’s a long-distance relationship, right?
Yes, sadly.
Did you meet through the internet?
Yep!
How often do you see them?
If Skype counts, more often than not. In real life? Never.
How long have you been together?
Since about February 23rd.
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When Was The Last Time You …
…saw them?
Via Skype, I’m almost certain it was last Monday…
…kissed them?
I have yet to.
…hugged them?
I wish…
…talked to them?
Before he went to bed a few hours ago!
…had sex with them?
Never.
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Some Other Questions
What made you decide you wanted to be in a long-distance relationship?
He helps me escape emotional pain and distractions. I know he’d never hurt me, and I can trust him whole-heartedly.
How does it usually make you feel?
Honestly? Depressed and genuinely happy all the same.
Are there any songs that remind you of them?
“To Whom It May Concern” - The Civil Wars
Ever feel unable to believe you’re in a real relationship because of it?
We can do anything we put our minds to. Meaning, making our relationship work.
Do you ever feel angry or stressed because of the distance?
When people say it isn’t a real relationship or that it’ll break off quickly. Stressed because he isn’t there to hug.
Do you ever take it out on your significant other?
I try not to. I’m so sorry if I have.
Are you ever jealous of local couples?
A lot, actually. Especially when couples around school “miss each other,” despite seeing one another about an hour ago. I want to see Liam everyday but hey.
What are the advantages of a long-distance relationship?
Definitely building trustworthy relationships, communication skills, and loyalty.
What are the disadvantages?
Fucking time zones. Not being able to kiss his tears away, or whisper “It’ll be okay,” in his ear.
Do you know when the next time you’ll see them is?
I hope this summer will be our first.
How do you usually talk to them?
Facebook, iPod Messages, Skype, Tumblr, etc. uwu
Has the distance helped your relationship at all?
We talk more often than a regular couple should/would.
Do you find it hard to trust your significant other?
There are random bouts of paranoia that are overcome by that amazing trust.
Have you, or your SO, ever taken advantage of the distance and lied?
No way.
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Future
Do you ever hope to live with your significant other?
If he wants to be with me.
Do you hope to marry them?
We’re in school still, but we have had discussions on this topic.
Do you hope to have kids with them?
Hee, hee. That’s hush-hush
Do you think it’d be strange to finally have them with you, permanently?
It’d be different, but not strange.
Do you think there’s a chance of this happening?
Definitely.
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Depressing
How often do you cry over it?
More often than I should.
Would you ever break up with them because of the distance?
I wouldn’t want to at all.
What keeps you from ending it all?
Our love.
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Finishing
Overall, are you happy you’re in the relationship?
Yes, very.
Any advice for others in your situation?
Don’t hop into it. Take it slow and practice communication skills and thinking of topics for a conversation. We’re bad at that. Hee, hee.
For whoever does this, FUCK YOU.I get that distance is distance and you’ll miss someone you love when you’re away from them no matter how often you see them, but when you’re talking to someone that hasn’t seen their significant other in months, you’ve got to be sensitive about some things.
